Wow, it's been that long? I can't beleive my last post was in August/September...anyway, I'll pick up where I left off....
So I finally managed to break things off with my exboyfriend and life couldn't be any better for me! Living on my own has been great. I did have a few struggles along the way but I'm still doing it all on my own. I've started school again and I have never looked at my future any more positive than I do today. I have so many goals and ambitions so many things I need to tackle and accomplish. I'm finally making way for the path I plan to walk and it's just getting better and better.
Living on my own couldn't be greater. I'm doing what I want, when I want, who I want, and at anytime, anyplace...with no boundaries, no curphews, no one who to explain anything to but myself! I've never felt so happy in my life.
I've always been the type to be in relationships but since I've had 2 failed relationships I figured I do myself and just play the game and have fun and enjoy myself. For the first time I can defintely say I do not plan to, wish to, or have any desire to get into a relationship! I want no commitment, no ties, nobody to hold me back from anything I want to do!
Since my breakup with Roger, I've had my little love adventures which I plan do dish out soon...I've had friends with benefits and I've learned to see life from a different perspective! My perspective! I do as I want, with no a care in the world. I dont care what people say or what they can possibly think about the actions I take, because in the end, it's my life i'm living and I'm the one who has to walk in my shoes, so just kick back and enjoy the ride with me...and live my adventure.
About Me
Tuesday, April 13, 2010
Monday, August 24, 2009
Breakup Fail
Once again. I tell him I dont love him. I tell him that I dont want to waste his time. I tell him I dont want to lead him on. I tell him I am not happy. I tell him that things are just not the same. I tell him he's too late. I tell him I want to be alone. I tell him I am not in love anymore. I tell him I don't want to be with him.
He say's he loves me. He say's he can make me happy. He says he can make it work. He say's if only I try.
I have tried!
He realized too late.
I just want to be alone. Go to school, focus on me myself and I. No more relationships. No more boyfriends. No more feelings of love and affection. Just want to be me, do me, and live my life.
I'm tired of being with him. Yet he doesn't understand.
He say's he loves me. He say's he can make me happy. He says he can make it work. He say's if only I try.
I have tried!
He realized too late.
I just want to be alone. Go to school, focus on me myself and I. No more relationships. No more boyfriends. No more feelings of love and affection. Just want to be me, do me, and live my life.
I'm tired of being with him. Yet he doesn't understand.
Hey There Delilah
I can't get him out of my head. Each time I hear this song I think back to that morning when his lips were pressed against mine. When his eyes stroked my body, and his cool soft hands stroked my skin. I'm sure he probably doesn't recall, but I love that song, and now that I listen to it all I think of his kisses on that cool, late summer morning.
I love that song. I would feel so good and special if someone wrote a song like that about me. Makes me think and wonder how strong the feelings were for the songwriter to be inspired to write that song. It's a great song, great tune and beat and its perfect.
It's bittersweet for me, listening to that song. I just think of this boy that I can't get out of my mind, but always wonder if I even cross his. Not only that, but it saddens me because I'm stuck in a relationship and I remember feeling just like the song describes and today it just saddens me that I have an empty feeling inside.
I love that song. I would feel so good and special if someone wrote a song like that about me. Makes me think and wonder how strong the feelings were for the songwriter to be inspired to write that song. It's a great song, great tune and beat and its perfect.
It's bittersweet for me, listening to that song. I just think of this boy that I can't get out of my mind, but always wonder if I even cross his. Not only that, but it saddens me because I'm stuck in a relationship and I remember feeling just like the song describes and today it just saddens me that I have an empty feeling inside.
Thursday, August 6, 2009
Relationships are like Jobs
As I sit here, staring out the window into the vinyards I was thinking back to a piece of the movie Funny Poeple and how I was able to relate to the woman who wanted to leave her husband. Anyway...my point here is. Relationships are just like jobs. You are trying so hard to make an impression, you work hard at getting that job, the job here would be getting the girl. Once you get that job, you work really hard at getting the promotion. The promotion in this case is possibly moving in, but once you move in and you have that promotion its all good and dandy. You reached your goal and you don't really have anything much to aspire to because you figure you have what you want and you got what you need. Little did you know you are pretty much letting your boss down because you're set right.
Well, if you boss would have known your ass was going to settle I'm sure they would not have hired you. Your boss wants you to keep that motivation and strive forward and keep looking forward to your job and your position, this case...your relationship.
Why is that men alike women try so hard to get "in" and once you get what you want you just stop. You show one face at the very beginning doing all you can to charm the hell out of your girl/boy and then once you are in a relationship its over. No more dates, no more excitement, no more adventure, it's all gone. It's like all the sparks died. Maybe that's why I try to find a spark in someone, since my light is pretty much burnt out.
Anyway, and just like a job, when you know you are fucking up and you know that you are in trouble or you have that gut feeling that you are about to get fired or replace then you get your engines going and then you try to fix the problems. You try to make up for all the lost time and all the slacking off. But only when you know you are at risk of losing your job. In this case, when you fear you are about to get dumped. All of a sudden you feel like taking her out on dates, all of a sudden you want to travel, dine, and have fun! Do you really think your boss is gonna put up with that shit, only so you can work your way in again, feel safe and slack off again!? NOPE! It's like they give you a warning, a second warning, a final warning, you get suspended and then your fired. I think men alike women, shouldn't even get a warning, I think the warning is just a sign that the relationship is probably not going to work out and maybe it should be more of a red flag to you and you should dump his/her ass hence...FIRE your employee.
Next time around, come screenings and interviews be sure not to make the same mistake twice!
You see how relationships are like jobs?!
Well, if you boss would have known your ass was going to settle I'm sure they would not have hired you. Your boss wants you to keep that motivation and strive forward and keep looking forward to your job and your position, this case...your relationship.
Why is that men alike women try so hard to get "in" and once you get what you want you just stop. You show one face at the very beginning doing all you can to charm the hell out of your girl/boy and then once you are in a relationship its over. No more dates, no more excitement, no more adventure, it's all gone. It's like all the sparks died. Maybe that's why I try to find a spark in someone, since my light is pretty much burnt out.
Anyway, and just like a job, when you know you are fucking up and you know that you are in trouble or you have that gut feeling that you are about to get fired or replace then you get your engines going and then you try to fix the problems. You try to make up for all the lost time and all the slacking off. But only when you know you are at risk of losing your job. In this case, when you fear you are about to get dumped. All of a sudden you feel like taking her out on dates, all of a sudden you want to travel, dine, and have fun! Do you really think your boss is gonna put up with that shit, only so you can work your way in again, feel safe and slack off again!? NOPE! It's like they give you a warning, a second warning, a final warning, you get suspended and then your fired. I think men alike women, shouldn't even get a warning, I think the warning is just a sign that the relationship is probably not going to work out and maybe it should be more of a red flag to you and you should dump his/her ass hence...FIRE your employee.
Next time around, come screenings and interviews be sure not to make the same mistake twice!
You see how relationships are like jobs?!
CONTRADICTION
I am one confused person right now. I am so frustrated beacuse I love being alone. I enjoy being with me, myself, and I. Doing as I please with not a care in the world. With not a worry that I have to cook or clean, or wash someone's clothes other than my own! Freedom is a beautiful thing.
Yet, you're alone and you long for someone to hold, to love, to kiss and to touch. I just dont get it. We women really are never happy (and same goes for men). You want one thing, you get it, and you want something else. I just dont understand.
I feel that I just reached a fork in the middle of a long road and I have to take a path. I want to go one direction, but then I'm afraid I will want to walk back and take the 2nd and find out what it holds.
I'm in a relationship where I dont feel 100% happy. Obviously, since I'm looking for excitement and spark in someone else. I want to leave him so bad but then I stop and think and something stupid inside me holds me back from just leaving! The thought of being around him is just pissing me off right now, I dont want to see him, touch him, or even look at him. I just want to be left alone, and do as I please. The spark is not there anymore, why am I there?? I tell myself that I want it to be over, that it has to be over, yet I stay. I just dont' get it. What do I want! Do I want to leave? Do I want to stay?
I guess the thought of starting all over is what scares me the most. I tell myself each and everytime that this time, I will do things so differently. I won't jump in right away and I'll take my time, live life, travel, do things I really want to do and love and just spend time on myself. I wonder if I will get that chance? I shouldn't have to wonder, I should give myself that chance to just be free and live! But will I? Contradiction is a terrible thing, I hate to want something and not go after it because of this or that!! I want it, yet I dont go for it, because Im scared of being lonely! WTF!!
Yet, you're alone and you long for someone to hold, to love, to kiss and to touch. I just dont get it. We women really are never happy (and same goes for men). You want one thing, you get it, and you want something else. I just dont understand.
I feel that I just reached a fork in the middle of a long road and I have to take a path. I want to go one direction, but then I'm afraid I will want to walk back and take the 2nd and find out what it holds.
I'm in a relationship where I dont feel 100% happy. Obviously, since I'm looking for excitement and spark in someone else. I want to leave him so bad but then I stop and think and something stupid inside me holds me back from just leaving! The thought of being around him is just pissing me off right now, I dont want to see him, touch him, or even look at him. I just want to be left alone, and do as I please. The spark is not there anymore, why am I there?? I tell myself that I want it to be over, that it has to be over, yet I stay. I just dont' get it. What do I want! Do I want to leave? Do I want to stay?
I guess the thought of starting all over is what scares me the most. I tell myself each and everytime that this time, I will do things so differently. I won't jump in right away and I'll take my time, live life, travel, do things I really want to do and love and just spend time on myself. I wonder if I will get that chance? I shouldn't have to wonder, I should give myself that chance to just be free and live! But will I? Contradiction is a terrible thing, I hate to want something and not go after it because of this or that!! I want it, yet I dont go for it, because Im scared of being lonely! WTF!!
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